patch by  matt...@amigarulez.se, Some grids active/Telerik and other edge cases use reflection and other methods to cache members.

Current implementation results in inconsistent between the wrapper object and the underlying dictionary because the DynamicObject members are returned and not the underlying dictionary.

Simple fix basically add an override to FastExpando class and reflection acts consistently.

added support for schema changes - schema can now change and dapper will re-generate the deserializers.

salt the earth if we start getting multiple errors; the risk here is that it is a schema change that impacts multiple queries

EG:

  DynamicParameters p = new DynamicParameters();
  p.AddDynamicParams(new { A = 1, B = 2 });
  p.AddDynamicParams(new { C = 3, D = 4 });

Expose some more of dapper's internals

Dapper.Contrib Insert Fails